January 12, 2010
Naughty Makes Nice @ 2:59 PM
I'm going to a sex toy party at the end of the month at a girlfriend's house and have already been questioned if I'm going to get something and why do I need anything if I have the real thing...I am not replacing anyone with a battery operated toy! Why do men feel threatened by vibrators and dildos? Nothing to fear guys, if you're doing your thang and you're open about your desires, needs and wants you're good. You my friend have a healthy sex life. So what if she has a vibrator to keep her company when you're not around to scratch that itch? Don't you guys realise that the more sexual we are, the more YOU benefit from it??? Maybe somedays we don't want the foreplay and the kissing and groping that comes before the main course. Is it bad if we just want to go into straight unadulterated f***ing? Seems to me that guys feel threatened that the Bunny might make them look bad. Don't worry fellas, chances are when shes using her pocket rocket shes actually thinking of you and will be revved to
f**k your brains out rock your world. So should naughty goods be more helpful then harmful to a relationship? I would think so. That naughty, sensuality that a woman might feel may open her up to explore
herself other sexual sides that she didn't even know existed. An excellent example was written by yet another favourite blogger
max-logic where she talks about anal sex being the new thing the cool girls are doing. *jots down anal beads on shopping list and lots and lots of KY* Maybe I should do my research before going to this party.
Labels: relationships, sex, sex toys, video
January 6, 2010
BF vs. Online Friends @ 3:16 PM
Ok this is a reocurring problem in my relationship, it doesn't help that I'm alot more into online networking then he is. I think I may have used His name once (or twice?) in my blog so far because I know he doesn't really like to be put out there...BUT! he also doesnt like to be kept in the attic! So He, Him, Us...blah blah blah...are all refering to me and...well...HIM! Why are men threatened by online friends?? Same reason women are!!! Insecurities. Yup, thats it. there is that fear that you will find yourself in some whirlwind cyber romance, that you will find someone more interesting perhaps. Some guys just dont like their shit exposed for others to read, they feel uncomfortable with people knowing stuff about them that they aren't even aware of. I believe that once you reach a certain point of maturity in your relationship you're cool with it and you feel secure enough that even though the skinny bitch/washboard stomach guy is on your significant other's networks that you have NOTHING to be worried about! I dont consider myself a 'Blogger' by any means, I write here to vent or to just have a 10 minute escape from whatever bullshit I'm doing, but I really liked this video of a few husbands that have mommy bloggers as wives. Mom bloggers just put EVERYTHING out there! They blog about family life and its not always pretty! Here is the video and I will try and get written and notarised permission to post up a picture of Him *side eye*.
Ok I had to come back and edit this part here to remove the video because I couldnt get the auto play to stop. So instead of posting the video I will provide you with the link. If you are a blogger and you and your husband/partner/bf/ him whatever you want to call him, have had problems because of it take a peek.
Labels: blogging, Him, social networks, video
January 5, 2010
Cool @ 2:32 PM
Cut Chemist
Spat
Director/Animator James Reitano brings to life a conversation between two turntables in this video collaboration with Cut Chemist (Jurassic 5, Ozomatli).
Love the concept of this video.
Labels: cool, video
